Ms. Lady...I thank you for checking in on me, its appreciated. I saw your blog post...and like you, I've been somewhat down in spirit too. The road in overcoming personal setbacks sometime be long and difficult. But like some have said to me, don't give in to defeat or give up on faith.
In your post you asked, how long you would sit back and play the fool and I ask, do you know of the artist Aaron Neville? He sing's this song, "Everybody Plays the Fool." If you can, listen to the lyrics and reflect.
If you can, please don't consider yourself a fool because you are not. Its nothing wrong with loving someone and trying to make things work. I would think that if you didnt give it your all you'd feel short-changed. All I can say is, when you get tired of feeling like YOU are the problem and when you come to understand that YOU are the solution, things will get better.
IF it helps, I was married for 9 years and with the ex for 13, and there wre times when I would check his pager/phone, but you know something... when I found myself looking at his pager/phone the truth was already evident/present, I just didnt want to accept it. Acceptance is a hard pill to swallow, and once again, when you get tired of accepting whatever it is he's dishing out to you, you will clean your plate.
Think of your health and overall well-being and work hard at loving Ms. YeYo is.
I don't know you or your pain but I may be able to relate a little as far as when one seeks counseling with their SO. I was once married and I'm currently divorced, 7 years.
As I type my words please know that although I don't know you personally, know that today I am thinking of you and yours and praying that you make the best decisions for you, not your son, not your SO, but you. Given the circumstances do what's best for you, by doing so, it enables you to be more helpful and useful to others. When there are concerns/issues with the SO it can be a difficult period and the time of adjustment varies. Hang in there, okay?
she has adjusted very well into at her new daycare and we are very comfortable in and confident about the choice we made for her. Thank you for asking.
The image of the woman and the sunflower is so beautiful!
This page is stong!!! I love these flowers...they make me want to say something poetic....I am going to close my eyes and listen to Raheem while putting the fire in me on paper. Thanks sis
For the encouraging words in response to the blog. I will continue to be firm in our decisions and if the shoe does not fit then hey, a new pair always works best! I will keep you posted
*Hugs*
Ms. Lady...I thank you for checking in on me, its appreciated. I saw your blog post...and like you, I've been somewhat down in spirit too. The road in overcoming personal setbacks sometime be long and difficult. But like some have said to me, don't give in to defeat or give up on faith.
In your post you asked, how long you would sit back and play the fool and I ask, do you know of the artist Aaron Neville? He sing's this song, "Everybody Plays the Fool." If you can, listen to the lyrics and reflect.
If you can, please don't consider yourself a fool because you are not. Its nothing wrong with loving someone and trying to make things work. I would think that if you didnt give it your all you'd feel short-changed. All I can say is, when you get tired of feeling like YOU are the problem and when you come to understand that YOU are the solution, things will get better.
IF it helps, I was married for 9 years and with the ex for 13, and there wre times when I would check his pager/phone, but you know something... when I found myself looking at his pager/phone the truth was already evident/present, I just didnt want to accept it. Acceptance is a hard pill to swallow, and once again, when you get tired of accepting whatever it is he's dishing out to you, you will clean your plate.
Think of your health and overall well-being and work hard at loving Ms. YeYo is.
Take care, and hang in there.
I PRAY for the predators that hunt me.
Hugs and Hello
I don't know you or your pain but I may be able to relate a little as far as when one seeks counseling with their SO. I was once married and I'm currently divorced, 7 years.
As I type my words please know that although I don't know you personally, know that today I am thinking of you and yours and praying that you make the best decisions for you, not your son, not your SO, but you. Given the circumstances do what's best for you, by doing so, it enables you to be more helpful and useful to others. When there are concerns/issues with the SO it can be a difficult period and the time of adjustment varies. Hang in there, okay?
Hugs-Tinky
I PRAY for the predators that hunt me.
L-O-V-E-L-Y
Woman this page is on point! Looking all sensual, lady like, and warm.
Just checkin on ya...wanna get to know you a little better.
Take care and shine on!
I PRAY for the predators that hunt me.
Hey Lady!
Yea,I did post two blogs on orgasams and the moderators removed them.If you want I can email them to you.
Stay Sweet!
Peace,
Indigo
hey lady...
she has adjusted very well into at her new daycare and we are very comfortable in and confident about the choice we made for her. Thank you for asking.
The image of the woman and the sunflower is so beautiful!
Your page
This page is stong!!! I love these flowers...they make me want to say something poetic....I am going to close my eyes and listen to Raheem while putting the fire in me on paper. Thanks sis
YIBONURMIND
Thank You
Just stopped by to say thanks for the comments.By the way I luv your page.It's beautiful!
Peace,
Indigo
Thanks
I PRAY for the predators that hunt me.
Greetings Mama
Mawiyah Kai EL-Jamah Bomani
Welcome to the circle and may you always find encouragement here.
Ase
Thank you...
For the encouraging words in response to the blog. I will continue to be firm in our decisions and if the shoe does not fit then hey, a new pair always works best! I will keep you posted