Well it's almost finished... I'm moving back home. to my mothers house ... ahahahahahahahahah! Am I Crazy ?! I think I must have lost me mind. Well she offered a few months back and I said uhmm let me think about it I just finished school which has left me broken physically ( I gained 10 pounds) and financially ( Lets just say I wouldn’t be able to bay a pinto if they still made them) . I was in a tail spin Robbing Peter to Pay Paul(lol) Sound the offer was extended and after much much thought I said yes ( months in thought) My Future Husband and I want to get married, buy a house and raise a family and I don’t want to come to the table empty handed. He’s in full support of my move and said that it will be good.
I wont have to pay rent which means I can SAVE! It’s Hard out here in These Streets for a single momma ( unmarried) like my self I don’t want to JUST get by I want to Make it and Be able to Make it Happen if and When I want. I have some what been Depressed and I have let money Run me for the last couple of years. I need to Regroup and Get my self on Solid Ground for Our Future.
Long Story Short My Mother is not the most wonderful person to get along with, she can be very rude ( even to my future husband) She is a take me as I am a kind of person . And in some ways that is a PLUS but in other ways it can be down right Embarrassing, and very annoying. I wasn’t in her house for longer than 30 min and she accused me of stealing something out of her jewelry box yesterday!!! She is a opinion giver ( you don’t even have to ask for one she going to give it to you) and if you don’t follow her advice then that’s that! She has the answer to all you ills, and worries. And Wont stop till you here them. I'm glad this house is a Big One.
Lastly, I have a 7 yr. old son. Who thinks "Nana" is the word and she wont whoop that A** ( excuse the lingo sisters) But He in for a rude awakening Nana is all fun and games when you come to visit cause she know you butt will be going home. But once your under her roof and she has to see you everyday! UHMMM I told him Nana is a different person (lol)
I love my mother .. she’s only one I have she makes me laugh and YES she Picks at My Last Nerve! But she's mine and I love her But this women is going to drive my crazy. I will blog sisters to let you know the scoop!
Any advice from any sisters that have experienced the same?
hey sis, i know this story!
hey sis,
i know this story! i had to return home a few years ago to save $$$ & recharge my batteries. i was also getting low on funds & good spirits. it is hard being on your own for a while, this is why i needed to be with my family again, for some strength i believe. so do what you have to do!
& it is a different dynamic when you move back in again, having to put up with the old rules as an older person. just keep yourself open to the lessons you need to learn & make the best of it :) i wish the best for you & your fam!
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