Recently I have been confronted with many people trying to force their ways and expectations upon me. I have decided to not allow this expectations rule me or my days.

On women ( at work ) said that i don’t speak to her in the morning. I told not to take it personal it is no offense to her I don’t consciously wake up and the morning and think " uhm I’m not going to speak to her today" child please I have better things to think of for my day to be prosperous and productive. She is over weight and extremely insecure and is always talking about how other people talk about her.

My mother always wants me to do what she tells me to do she says " do it now and do it right " I said, Honey I am grown 28 to be exact and I love you but not every thing you recommend works for me, I am my own person and I will continue to live as such. She only my mother and wants the best for me I know. She can also be extremely over bearing, but you only have one and she’s mine I wouldn’t trade her in!!!!

Many others try to push their things on me weather it be the way I wear my hair , the style I dress, or the food I eat. Some one has an issue with it. I have decided that it is all about their own insecurities, it has nothing to do with me. I will continue to live happy, live free, live fresh, take joyful risks, not be ashamed of what i like and what i don’t care for. I remember when I was younger ( high school ) I had the courage, and excitement, to be my own person, experience many things and as I have grown older ( not much) I have lost it and recently ( this year ) I have gained back my confidence, and excitement about life.

I'M GOING TO LIVE LIFE ON MY OWN TERMS!