For the past year in college I have had issues with providing happiness for myself. After blowing up at people and lossing relationships with others I have come to a conclusion that my self love is not at the top of my list and thats why I can not see the love that others see in me. If anyone has any help or encouraging words please feel free to leave me a message.God BLess to all. LOVE & BLESSINGS
acheiving inner peace
Salaam
Remember,self love (realising how worthy you are), positive decisions, positive attititude, forgiveness, peace (acheiving inner peace).
When you are angry or hurt, the instant reaction is of anger and pain, it is only natural when you are a hurting soul.
Spend some time alone, praying and meditating. Try to forgive, no matter how hard it is to forget. You may probably need to change company, if the company you keep negates your spirit. If you are angry with family, remember you can't pick your family, but love and accept them for who they are. Surround yourself with others that make you feel better about yourself. If you are a christian, consult your church leader (pastor/priest) or a trustful elder in your religion. Get a mentor who you can trust.
Accept any positive change.
A peaceful spirit affects you mentally/emotionally and physically.
p.s I do not know you so my advice is only from the energy I got while reading your note, I hope it helps.
Thank you
Thank you so much for taking your time out to express your love to me..and providing the help and support from your open ears...I really got a lot from what you said..And being on ymib and networking with other woman and seeing their perspective on things and providing me with advice..just like yourself, has truly opened up my spirits..
And God is continuing to provide me with good company starting right here. so again I thank you so much.
God bless you
Peace.
It must be time to change something...
Hey, sorry you're having a hard time. The only thing that I can tell is that you are angry, resentful and hurt by someone from the past or some event. My best advice is to write out how you feel (in a journal) because YOU know better than anyone what is at the root of your pain. Once you do that try to resolve it in your mind and heart with prayer or maybe speak to the person/people who hurt you. The only way to have true peace is to choose PEACE and stick with it, no matter what.
Maybe you need to forgive someone and maybe you need to forgive yourself. Work on it. Focus on you and hashing out whatever has gotten under your skin.
The easiest way to be happy and have peace is to be grateful for every little good thing in your life. Appreciate what you do have and you will become even more positive.
Good Luck!
Yes Lioness...For The Lioness You Know, For The Empress You Love, For The Goddess You Are!
Touching and So TRU
WOW....thats all i have to say... I def have built up anger and things that i need to get off my chest and your advice is very touching.I have never kept a journal before and its funny because Im a vocalist..your words have inspired me to write songs and express myself through that also..
So thank you again sista and I will keep you posted
God Bless
Peace
PS. sorry for taking so long to reply